My parents and little brother Clay are in town and we are busy busy busy enjoying them. I will get back to regular posting after they leave.Hope everyone had a merry Christmas! And that you all are well! Love you! ~care
This year we were so spoiled and had such a great Christmas. Our families REALLY spoiled us! Thank you Thank You Thank you! 
Dalton Christmas Eve. 
Daddy opening the Wii. His one gift to open Christmas Eve.
Vernon setting up the Wii. We are all excited to play! So far both Daddy and JD have got to play and love it!
All the kids in their Christmas Eve Jammies. 
JD on the "Big" Santa gift to the kids. 
Danica and her favorite present from Santa. 
Kaden opened his cars helicopter and then ran to the top of the stairs and refused to come down to play with anything else. Or even finish opening his gifts. That is Ok though the other were more then willing to help out. 
This is Dalton playing Tug of War with mommy over his toy :) 
This is part of our Chaos as mommy is trying to clean up and organise everything and daddy is putting together Santa's Big gift.
P.S. So sorry it has taken till after NOON to post this the kids didn't fall asleep till 2 am and I had to force them out of bed! I couldn't stand the excitement anymore! Hope every ones Christmas was as wonderful as ours and again thank you all for spoiling us!
WOOO HOOO #1 This was a few days ago, but every month they have an awards assembly for those who have gone the whole month with perfect attendance. This month it was JD's turn. (it seems my kids take turns missing a day of school each month. It is a very bad picture but it was the ONLY one that someone didn't walk in front of me while I was taking it. They make the parents sit in the VERY back of the cafeteria and they aren't like Hawaii where they invite and encourage the parents to sneak up and take pictures. So I was on MEGA zoom and well someday I will have an awesome camera! 
WOOO HOOO #2 Danica's missing tooth picture! Isn't she beautiful? Messy hair and all! 
WOO HOO #3 Kaden has been in a very bad need of a hair cut for a long time. But the HATES to have his head touched, so last night while he was sleeping I snuck in a trimmed his side burns, its not great and looks like someone who totally didn't know what they were doing took a weed whacker to his head but at least its not growing over his ears anymore. Even in his sleep he made it difficult, he kept reaching up and grabbing the scissors. 
Wooo HOOO #4 Dalt also got his sideburns cut. MOMMY really messed those up! Vernon kept assuring me as I am crying that its hair and it will grow back. I kept telling him but not his baby curls! He also got to have his first try of oranges. I think he liked it!
WOOO HOOO #5 This website http://serv.sharedbook.com/blogworld/printmyblog/index.html will publish my blog and put it in book form! HOW AWESOME IS THAT! We all know how important keeping a journal is and well I do mine online, and I can have someone print it out for me and I can have it forever and ever! Totally cool! It is on my wish list. I plan on doing it once a year.
WOOO HOOO #6. I am FINALLY getting around to my holiday baking! Better late then never right? Seems to be the story of my life. We are making peanut blossoms, snicker doodles, Chocolate chip with butter scotch chips, regular chocolate chip, and andes mint chocolate chunk cookies! YUMMY YUMMY!
Alrighty folks thats all for now! Hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Be Safe and Make sure you tell all of your loved ones how much they mean to you! (I am sure you all will hear from me again before all of this, but just in case you dont!) HUGS AND KISSES! ~ Care
OK, so when tax return season hits, along with doing the smart thing and pay and all that other good stuff, I am going to do something purely selfish. i am going to buy myself a digital SLR camera. But I am struggling to find the perfect one for me and what I want. So if ANY of you out there have any thoughts on this and can help me out it would be so appreciated! I want something that will be clear, look semi professional, with out me having to be. It will need to be semi sturdy,but not like carrying around a brick, and something that both Vernon and I can use. Thoughts? Anyone? I have seen some WONDERFUL pictures on blogs while I am browsing through list...OK, I admit it, I blog stalk. LOL. Now I am jealous of all the wonderful picture out there and want nice ones too!
I didnt post about meeting with the school Psychologist. Well there is a Very good explanation, i didnt go till today. So I have signed all the paperwork to have them run an IQ test, get paperwork from CVRC, and also got explained the whole process which really is a horrible process! They have to do an in home thing (SO NOT THRILLED ABOUT THIS). If you know me you know I hate having people in my space, judging me. This part will be hard for me. They will also have him tested with speech and hearing (AGAIN!!!!)
Seriously cant they just take the children's hospitals word for it!?! Then they will have an occupational therapist do some testing on him. And an IQ test. And some other test that they will do some test at the district office where they will have like a pretend birthday party and a few other things to see how he will react. Kaden is not going to be a happy camper. He hates this and threw all the stuff during the last IQ test so this should be interesting. Its funny how everyone has to do their own testing on him and cant take anyone else's word for it. they all have to prove it over and over again. I feel bad for my little guy. he hate being in these tiny rooms and having to sit through all of this. I KNOW it is what needs to happen to get him EVERY help possible. Which is what is best for him, but at the same time they are just doing the same things over and over. Anywho, again this is how I am feeling at the moment and need to vent. And Vernon needs a break from me. Trust me when I say in the end I know this will all be worth it.
I took my camera with me today to get the kids and boy and I glad I did. Danica's class made ginger bread houses today and we got a few fun pictures. So here is the boys waiting for JD and Danica to get out of school in my new jogging stroller. 
it was only 52 when we headed out so the boys got to have a blanket. Plus Kaden was half asleep. Here is Danica with her Ginger Bread House, How cute! (side note, Danica lost her second tooth today while eating breakfast. Unfortunitly, she swallowed it) 
Next is JD! Looks like he had a great day at school. He loves to wear his hood. He is working on losing his 3rd tooth! I can not believe it they are getting SO big. :(
I tried to get a good picture of all the kids with the ginger bread house, here is the best one out of the group, they were all ready to eat it and were busy sneaking pieces. As usual they were too busy to all smile at once. 
I tried to get a good Kaden alone picture but he didnt want any part of it. So here he is getting ready to have a nap. 
And one more of Dalton playing in the box. This one he is standing and clapping, growing up way too fast if you ask me! Tiffany please note that my floor needs to be swept and the rug is all out of place, shoes have been taken off the shelf and the hair brush, Oh and there is Danica's bowl on the floor behind him too! I promise my house is not as clean as you made it sound the other day :) 
Also my kids do get bathed and washed up often but we were rushing and they kept sneaking chocolate. what a mess it makes!
Today we got a box from grandma Amy and as I was removing things from the box and hiding them. Dalton decide to play going to grandmas. Here are a couple pictures of my cutie! He is growing up way too fast! He started blowing kisses today and then would clap after. I wish I would have gotten my camera, but I was afraid he would stop and I didnt want to miss a minute of it. 
I am making a side blog where I will post my menu and recipes for 2 weeks at a time (our pay period) If there is ANYONE who reads this who would like to share recipes, menus, even just occasionally PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE leave me a comment and I will add you as a contributer. I love trying new recipes! Anyway, click on the Care Cooks link to see tonights dinner and in the morning I will be going through and adding the menu (I hope, if the boys nap at the same time) Anyway, I wrote a more detailed explantion on there. Thanks! Hugs and kisses to everyone! ~Care
OK, Any ideas on how to get all the kids to take a decent picture? The tree in our front yard has dropped a ton of leaves and so I thought it would cute to have all the kids lay down in them and get a picture. Yeah it didnt turn out so well. but here it is anyway (the best one out of the bunch). And a cute one of Dalt. It is finally a non foggy day so we will probably venture out again after nap time I will take my camera just in case. 
And a cute one of Dalt because he decided to not wiggle and try to get up AFTER all of the other kids moved.
When we had the speech evaluation the set a copy to the school district as well. They forwarded it to the speech therapist at the school. who I met with right before Thanksgiving break. She said she needed to meet with a few people to figure out how best to help with Kaden. So she talk to the school district psychologist and I talked to her today and she wants to start the ball rolling on getting a diagnosis for Kaden with the school district. I dunno I am confused when we have the diagnosis from the neuropsychologist. But whatever we are getting the ball rolling to help Kaden and that is all that matters. So anyway I meet with her tomorrow and sign a bunch of agreements (to Kaden being tested, and them getting the info from CVRC) They said it was good that we already have the diagnosis, but this doctor takes forever to get the paperwork to you and we dont want to slow anything down so we are moving forward with it this way atleast he will be getting into the school system......mommy is having a hard time with it, she thinks her kids should be home with her till they are 5. But I want to give him every chance to succeed. Anyway, that is the latest and greatest from our house.
Oh wait one more quick cute thing. The other day Danica came home crying because she was having to go back to her classroom for reading (she had just moved up last month from being in her class, to a higher level) So I asked her if she wanted me to talk to her teacher and she what was going on because I had just gotten so much praise on how quickly she was picking up reading. She said no she didn't want me to go and talk to her. We get home and I am looking through her paperwork and find one of her reading pages and it says Danica is moving up to the next level. I guess every class has 2 teachers for reading and so yes she was going back to her class but going up ANOTHER level!!!! YAY! I am so proud!!! They tried to get me to hold her back in K again because they were not reading in Hawaii and when we got here they were already reading. SO while she maybe sad (the other teacher has a better treasure box, LOL)
I am bursting with pride. She is doing so well.
Love you all!
~Care
I saw this on my friend Kaylee's Blog and loved it so I stole it hahaha! I choose Carrot Cake...does it sound like me?
If all of the eight desserts listed below were sitting in front of you, which would you choose (sorry, you can only pick one)! Trust me...this is very accurate. Pick your Dessert, and then look to see what psychiatrists think about you.
REMEMBER - No Cheating. Make your choice before you check the meaning.
Here are your choices:
1. Angel Food Cake
2. Brownies
3. Lemon Meringue Pie
4.. Vanilla Cake With Chocolate Icing
5. Strawberry Short Cake
6. Chocolate Cake With Chocolate Icing
7. Ice Cream
8. Carrot Cake
No, you can't change your mind once you scroll down, so think carefully about what your choice will be.
OK - Now that you've made your choice, this is what the researchers say about you.... SCROLL DOWN---No Cheating
1. ANGEL FOOD CAKE -- Sweet, loving, cuddly. You love all warm and fuzzyitems. A little nutty at times. Sometimes you need an ice cream cone at the end of the day. Others perceive you as being childlike and immature at times.
2. BROWNIES -- You are adventurous, love new ideas, and are a champion of underdogs and a slayer of dragons. When tempers flare up you whip out your saber. You are always the oddball with a unique sense of humor and direction. You tendto be very loyal.
3. LEMON MERINGUE -- Smooth, sexy, & articulate with your hands; you are an excellent caregiver and a good teacher. But don't try to walk and chew gum at the same time. A bit of a diva at times, you set your own style because you do your own thing. You shine when it comes to helping others and have many friends.
4. VANILLA CAKE WITH CHOCOLATE ICING -- Fun-loving, sassy, humorous, not very grounded in life; very indecisive and lacking motivation. Everyone enjoys being around you, but you are a practical joker. Others should be cautious in making you mad. However, you are a friend for life.
5. STRAWBERRY SHORTCAKE -- Romantic, warm, loving. You care about other people, can be counted on in a pinch and expect the same in return. Intuitively keen. You can be very emotional at times but a true person in every way. You like to do things for yourself and help others learn about themselves.
6. CHOCOLATE CAKE WITH CHOCOLATE ICING -- Sexy; always ready to give and receive. Very creative, adventurous, ambitious, and passionate. You can appear to have a cold exterior but are warm on the inside. Not afraid to take chances. Will notsettle for anything average in life. Love to laugh.
7. ICE CREAM -- You like sports, whether it be baseball, football, basketball, or soccer. If you could, you would like to participate, but you enjoy watching sports. You don't like to give up the remote control. You tend to be self-centered and high maintenance.
8. CARROT CAKE -- You are a very fun loving person, who likes to laugh. You are fun to be with. People like to hang out with you. You are a very warm hearted person and alittle quirky at times. You have many loyal friends. You were meant to lead and teach others. A wonderful role model.
Today is Vernon's Birthday, so this post is mostly for him, but y'all can read it too. To honor your Birthday I am going to post one thing I love about you for every year you have been alive!
1. I love that you can cook and are willing to do it. I never realized how lucky I am that I have you to fall back on if I am sick or just don't want to make make dinner. But I have learned most husband are not that way, so I am very lucky.
2. I love that you make the kids read YOU bed time stories. And I know they love it too.
3. I love how you worry if I don't call you at work, you call me to make sure everything is OK with me.
4. I love that you call me randomly during the day just to tell me you love me and see how my day is going.
5. I love that you come home to have lunch with me when you can. It helps break up the day and makes me feel special.
6. I love that you at least try my crazy concoctions. I know when I get into a crazy mood and just mix ingredients together is freaks you out a little, but you always try a bite.
7. I love how you always believe in me and know just how much to push me into bettering myself.
8. I love that you are willing to do chores and help around the house. Not only is it such a help to me, but it is also a great example to our kids.
9. I love how when you are referring to one of the kids it is always MY. My Nana girl, My Booger, My KK, My Dalt Dalt. I don't know why I love this so much. But it is very cute.
10. I love that you help with homework time. It helps take a lot of stress off of me and helps it to go much quicker.
11. I love that you go to appointments with me. It shows how much you really care about what is going on in all of our lives.
12. I love your willingness to serve our country. It is a hard job and I am so proud of you!
13. I love that you snuggle me all night. I feel so safe wrapped up in your arms.
14. I love that you are my best friend. You are my Rock. You are always there beside me cheering me on, supporting me, believing in me. Even when I don't.
15. I love that I can be totally honest with you. I never have to hide anything with you. You may get upset, but nothing ever changes your love for me.
16. I love that you hold me while I cry and try to make me feel better. What better way to show your love for a person?
17. I love that you think I am cute when I am mad. (sometimes I act mad and put on my mad face, even though I know you are just teasing me, so you will tell me how cute I look)
18. I love that you go grocery shopping with me. I know its not a fun task, but it is a lot nicer to have you along side me while we shop.
19. And along those same lines, I love that you put your arm around my waist while we are shopping. It helps me feel more secure.
20. I love that you will go to the store and buy anything for me. It doesn't matter what it is from female products to make up to clothes. He can do it all and he does it for me.
21. I love that you are a good daddy to our kids. You take the time to spend with each one of them and help them feel special at just the right times.
22. I love that you are always trying to better yourself, and trying to make things better for our family.
23. I love that you support our family. When the subject of me working has come up, you help me to realize that I need to be home. We may not always have the fun stuff, but you make sure our needs are taken care of.
24. I love that you are not afraid to ask for help or admit that you need me in your life. I need you too :)
25. I love that when we have a disagreement, you cant stay mad at me and do what you can to make things better.
26. I love that you play with the kids. I love to watch you out there playing catch, or tag or just tickle the kids. And I know how much they love that you do that too.
27. And last but not least, I love that you love me. And I hope you know how much I love you. Happy Birthday Sweetie!
That we may be getting a special visitor for Christmas, so we decided to put off getting out decorations for a week. But I did get some pretty cute pictures anyway. 
The weekend is the only time we are not rushing around enough to have a nice family breakfast, and yesterday was waffle day! Yum Yum! Everyone loves waffles in this house. And what do you do when you are a mess from feeding yourself? Have a bath of course!
I never knew the joys of bathing your kids in the sink. Never really understood it. Now I love it. I can give both Dalt and Kade a bath at the same time, one in each sink and they aren't climbing all over or splashing each other and they are separated so there is no dunking either. Sure beats the bath tub! Why didn't I try this before?
We also made home made pizzas for lunch but I forgot to run in and grab the camera. The kids were so cute helping add toppings (and sneaking pepperoni). I am goona take the camera with me when I pick up the kids and hopefully I can get some cute fall like pictures. Anyway, Hope everyone is having a great day. ~Care
Today it was really cold (ok I an a wuss! But only cuz we lived in Hawaii so long!) So instead of going out for our planned photo shoot mommy style, we stayed home and got things in order so that tomorrow we can set up for Christmas! YAY!!!! Plus Danica has been claiming a tummy ache all day and I didn't want to risk anything. So this evening I attempted to get some pictures. It didn't work out too well. But I figure I have been promising to put some new ones up for a while now. So here are the ones that came out best. Hopefully tomorrow we can get some great shots of the kids helping with the Christmas decorations. 
First attempt, camera fuzzy no one looking. LOVE IT 
Second try not much better but camera is clear. 
And they are off! Dalton took his first tiney tiny baby step today. Mom clapped and laughed then cried! 10 months and 2 weeks and he is trying to walk. SO happy and so sad! My baby is growing up much to quick! So in this picture of them all racing away from being tortured to hold still and take a nice picture...there is Dalt standing on his own. Till my next post...Hugs and kisses to all. hope you are all safe healthy and happy. For that is truly the best blessing you can have.
I upset with my post about Kaden...Here is a new one just for you. Kaden was diagnosed with Autism. When I said he was labeled I was stating a fact. He is, it is not a death sentence. EVERY time I take him to the doctor, EVERY time I have to talk to the school, EVERY time I have to fight for his rights I will have to use the terms Autism and Autistic. It will go hand in hand a lot of the time with Kaden. ( I am not politically correct, never have been, never will be! I am not an under privileged American, I am poor white trash!) Kaden has Autism, But Autism doesn't have him! Nor will it change his place in our family or our hearts. He is our little KK and he is treated just like the other kids. He gets in trouble, he has time outs, he gets scolded. But he also gets all of our love. If you ask our kids who is a little more privileged in this house they will tell you its Kaden. They all know if they choose not to eat dinner it is their choice, and I will not run out and buy them something special because they didn't eat. But I do, do it for Kaden. Why you ask, because Kaden is different. We have spent plenty of time explaining to them about it and they understand. Kaden is very very picky and will go days with out eating and rarely eats what the rest of us eat. Fair not really, but I have no choice he has to eat. They also know when he poops somewhere he shouldn't he is not going to get into as much trouble as they would. So aside from getting special food and more understanding with his messes and melt downs. He gets the same everything. Always has, Always will.
People come with labels, like it or not they do. As for me I have 2. I have Fibromyalgia. I also have the label of bipolar, which causes anxiety attacks. When I go to the doctor I have to tell them that. When I have to explain to my kids why mommy isn't feeling up to going and standing around with a huge crowd of people to do something, or why some days mommy hurts, I have to explain. I have LABELS! But does it change who I am or what my family feels for me. NO! So I am sorry if I did not explain my feelings right. Or somehow lead you to believe that I will not do EVERYTHING in my power to give Kaden EVERY chance all of my other kids will have. But with the military and doctors and school. Kaden has a label but that is not all he has or is and we know that. He has US his family who will love him, push him, and do everything in our power to help him be the best Kaden he can be. And that is all we will ever ask of any of our children. This is my journal and my feelings and most days my brain isn't all together and things come out a mess. But this is for me. It is MY outlet. PC or not. Loving and Kind or NOT. This is for me and those who want a tiny glimpse into our life. I encourage people to leave comments, and maybe my emotions are too far out on my sleeve or maybe I am still a little emotionally raw. But since I had a few people say the same things to me I thought I needed to clarify. I love you all and have found the cord to the camera so I am all set to have a camera playdate with the kids this weekend! All my love! ~Carolyn
Sorry for the delay. It seems someone does not like me having a computer in the house at all. Every time I turn around something bad is happening to my computer. So after I got done with my blog yesterday, Kaden climbed up on my monitor, (I was in the kitchen putting his lunch in the oven) and peed down into it...ok, we have been through this before, call Vernon at work and ask him to please run to the recycling center and grab a thrown away monitor. Vernon came home with one. Problem solved! YAY! Computer is back and everyone is happy. SO I make dinner, get everyone to bed and Vernon is trying to install something, but then decides to go up to bed so I call up to him and ask how to get out of it and he says turn off the computer. So I did which lead to a complete melt down of my computer. So this morning after I got the kids to school I went in search of the system repair cd's. Found them and everything is back up and running. Sort of. Oh and I think in the process of searching for the cds I found my camera cord (praying hard, havent tried it yet) SO yes, the fates do not want me to have a computer. In the past 3 months I have gone through 3 monitors. 2 computer crashes and One ruined (pooped on, who knew poop would completely kill a laptop?) laptop. The Elrods are not supposed to have computers. Hopefully with the occupational therapy Kaden will learn to leave his diaper on and even be able to get potty trained!!!! He had learned to take his diaper off with a onsie on and with his pants on. and can get it off in the blink of and eye. Its not for a lack of my watching, I promise. Anyway, on for better news!
JD and Danica are doing AWESOME in school! They both passed all of their end of trimester tests will little to no problems. They are nice, sweet, polite kids and are a pleasure to have in class. YAY!!!! JD is doing great with his reading and is in the top 2 reading groups for his class and Danica is improving so much everyday with her reading, her teacher was worried at the beginning of the year (we were too) Because she still was not reading. They start reading in K here. But she has caught up and has been moved to a more advanced reading group. All in all it was a great parent teacher conferences for them. I walked out so pleased with my kids. We must be doing something right. OK, off to make lunch. Pray for my computers safety while I am in the kitchen. :D
I got this in an e-mail and figured I would add it on here too. Anyone who would like to steal it and do it is more then welcome to.
WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE
1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? BOTH
2. Real tree or Artificial? Real
3. When do you put up the tree? Don't really have a set day...maybe we should start!
4. When do you take the tree down? Day after Christmas
5. Do you like eggnog? Cant say that I have tried it
6. Favorite gift received as a child? Probably anything to do with Barbies or Dolls
7. Hardest person to buy for? Almost everyone
8. Easiest person to buy for? my kiddos
9. Do you have a nativity scene? yep
10. Mail or email Christmas cards? I like mail :)
11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? Cant think of one
12. Favorite Christmas Movie? I like them all
13. When do you start shopping for Christmas? I am a last minute person
14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas presents? I plead the 5th
15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Everything :)
16. Lights on the tree? Colored
17. Favorite Christmas song? Breath of Heaven, Mary did you know, Grown up Christmas List
18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? We will have to stay home as usual
19. Any holiday traditions? We are working on building some
20. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer's? yep
21. Angel on the tree top or a star? ANGEL
22. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? One the night before, the rest in the morning
23. Most annoying thing about this time of the year? People forgetting why we really are celebrating
24. Favorite ornament theme or color? nope just a jumble of stuff
25. Favorite for Christmas dinner? All of it
26. What do you want for Christmas this year? To see my kids eyes light up and the smiles on their faces.
Ok, That's all for now! but I will be back in a bit to tell all of you Lucky Readers about Parent Teacher Conference.
WHEW! What a day! First in the letter it told us to go to the above address, which was the Doctors office. Weird since I went through the CVRC (central valley regional center) and they told me it was going to be done there. Anywho, get there and they are like um your supposed to be in Visallia, we will call and see if the doc is almost there or if he can turn around and see you there. LOL he was there and said he would wait for us. AWESOME! so we jump in the car quick look at a map to see the quickest route and jump back on the freeway. We get there and get signed in and soon the Dr. comes out to greet us and he is the NICEST man. We spent a lot of time answering questions on Kaden and then we had to sign papers saying he could run some test on him. So he pulled out some puzzles with plastic shapes and tried to get Kade to mimic him. Kaden threw the pieces...OK, on to next test, blocks, see if he would mimic building a tower. Kaden licked the pieces. Next see if Kaden would feed a baby with a spoon. Kaden threw the spoon and checked the baby out. Point to the babies eyes, Doc shows the eyes, Kaden turns the baby over and tries to make it a car. See if Kaden will look at a book. Kaden didn't like this book so he threw it so far it went out of the room and down the hall.. GOOD THROW KADE :)! OK, one more test. This one had a bunch of pegs that you put into holes and they stood up. Kaden did it :) I was so excited! If he had more the one in his hand he wouldn't. But he did put it in a couple of times I was pleased. So Vernon finished up with the paperwork and Kaden finished up with his testing and the doctor looks at us and says based on what you are telling me and the testing I just did I am making the diagnosis of yes Kaden does have Autism. The asked if we had any questions. Yes I have tons! But I cant get my head on straight. All I could manage to ask was what now? I have known something was wrong with my baby for so long and now I had an answer....But it was still hard to hear, no matter how I thought I would handle it and how much I knew deep down that this was what was wrong with Kaden. It suddenly became real. I put a label on my child. But now what....that was all I could ask. How stupid is that!?! He said go to his Ped and tell them that he was diagnosed. Don't I need to wait for your report, nope I just gave you the diagnosis. you have all you need with my verbal telling you. Hmmm not sure how the Navy will take that one but ok. Then while we are talking to his Ped we need to ask (demand) that he start both speech and occupational therapy. We also need to go to the school and get him in a special ed preschool. If they tell us they don't have one we need to be firm. It is Federal Law that he gets to go to school and get started now because he is special needs. We also need to get back in touch with the person we first saw at the CVRC. And she will help get us into support groups and many many other things that are out there for us now that we have a diagnosis. I am sure this is not making a lot of sense, my brain feels jumbled. I tried to bake to clear my head, but after 10 dozen cookies made I am still feeling confused and overwhelmed. I know we can do this. We just have to take it one step at a time. But we have to fight for him. We will fight for him. And we will do the best we can, cuz that is all we can do. I know I have been promising pictures I and promise soon. I have lost the cord that plugs into my computer so I cant upload them. Sorry again for the jumbled mess. As I sort things out, I will add more. And fix it so it doesn't sound so jumpy and a lot less stressed. I am fine we are fine. Just have to get over the next few steps. Guess I should quit rambling and head to bed. Tomorrow is parent teacher conference for JD and Danica and that might be another fight. I am going to ask about having Danica tested for Dyslexia. She is reading somethings backwords and writes numbers backwords but says them correctly like the number is 51, but she will write 15 and tell me she wrote 51. Or write the 5 backwords. And reading she will read words like baby, dady...that sort of stuff and it worries me, so we shall she what her teacher says. Anyway thanks for reading. Hugs and kisses to all! and again sorry if this makes no sense at all. ~care
.....Or not, I am thinking not, It is never to late post all the may things you are thankful for right? I have been very bad about taking pics this last month. So I will take some later today and edit them in. OK, I really don't know how to start, my head is always a jumbled mess so bare with me and please note these are in no particular order besides that is how they came to mind. I am so very thankful for my husband. He is the best husband I could as for. Right now as I am typing he is out on a Santa mission, going through the dreaded "Black Friday" so we can have a special surprise under the tree for JD. And he took Kaden with him since Kaden decided to be an early riser. He also told me I could go back to sleep. But I knew if I didn't get this done while the house is quiet and everyone sleeping it probably wouldn't get done. Vernon is my best friend. LOL, even if he did just call to let me know how much he dislikes me ATM. And that my car isnt big enough to fit the gift :( Darn it! Santa could we borrow your sleigh? Who would have thunk after all these years and all of our differences, we would still be happy to be together...at least until I turn 30, right hun?
I guess next I should move on the kids... I am so grateful for all my kids and each one has a special place in our family. So I will post a bit about each one and a little tiny piece of why I am so thankful for them.
Jaron (aka-JD)- He was such a surprise I wasn't sure I was ready for. But I know in a lot of ways he was meant to be. Yes, his father and I were young and not married at first. But he helped us grow not only up but also together. He is so smart and and comes home saying words I had no idea he knew and uses them properly. It just blows me away to hear him read to me. I love that he still likes for me to sing to him at night. I hope he always does!
Danica- She was just the swift kick in the behind I needed. I thought I knew everything and I needed some humbling. And she was just the girl to do it. She was a schedule baby, something I didn't think I needed in my life (schedule, that is). But threw her I have learned that a schedule and a plan are actually very good things. I love her hugs and kisses and her I love you that she gives freely every day. I love to see her so stubborn and hardheaded. Vernon says shes just like me in that. Probably why we butt heads a lot, but I love that she stands up for herself!
Kaden- My sweetheart Kader. This kid is my comfort, my security blankie. Kaden was born 6 weeks before Vernon was deploying for the second time. (the first time I was a total mess and going through a really hard time, maybe I will post about it some day for those who want to know, or for my own person reference) I knew I would make it threw this deployment. I knew I could be strong as long as I had my Kader with me. Now as he is going through all of his testing it is time for me to be his blankie. Everyone who meet him tells me I am lucky, because he is such a happy sweet go with the flow little guy. And I know it. I love to watch him spin, I love that he has no fear. but most of all I love him, he is perfect to me.
And last but not least my Dalt Dalt- Dalton was my baby that I need to convince me we were done having babies. I love him to pieces! He is a total mommas boy (well all of my boys have been) But this little one takes it to extremes. I love that he follows me around (crawling, the crying that goes along with it, not so much) I love when Vernon brings him in to me and even if he is crying his heart out he will stop, smile and try to jump out of daddy's arms to get to me. I love his cute little dimples that only show up when I tell him no and he gives me his sneaky smile. Along with all his sweetness is a little boy whos mommy cant walk out of the room with out a major melt down (sad but cute). And a little guy who at 10 months is still up 3 and 4 times a night. This is why we are done....that and it is too much of a risk to try to have more c-sections. But I needed these trials with him to help me to know we did not need more babies. And for that knowledge I am thankful.
All the kids teach me so much every day and make me want to be a better person everyday. They make life worth getting up every morning. I am so thankful for all the emotions and craziness they bring to my life.
Next we should move on to family. I have been blessed with both an awesome family and awesome in-laws. They are always there for us. I always here people talk about how they are not close to their family or their in laws and I think how sad. I know that any struggle, any need we have we have a full support system behind us in our families and they will do what they can to help us. We are truly blessed. We love you all!
Ok, so if you are still reading...YAY! I am almost done being sappy and will move on to the more silly things in life that I am thankful for. But first one more sappy. I have been blessed with amazing friends. Listing names would be too crazy and way to long, maybe I should email each one of you and let you know personally how much you mean to me...yeah I will do that, someday....soon I promise! Just as soon as I dont have a wiggly 10 month old who insist on helping me type! But I know that each one of you has been placed in my life at the right time for a special purpose. Some of these friendships have not lasted and I am sad and miss you. And others have moved physically but never emotionally. Thank you for all you who continue to be in my life even if it is only from a distance. I love all that you have taught me and how you have influenced my life. Thank you all for being there for me and my family.
Now on to silly less sappy things! I am so thankful for music!
Music will brighten my mood, or bring up a fond memory, this morning when the alarm went off it was on the radio and the song was "Every rose" by guns and roses. And while I was in bed dreading the fact that I had to get up I couldn't help but to smile and think of Prom (weird prom song I know) But all of the Junior class learned a dance to that song and I remember how much I probably embarrassed my dance partner because I would always mess up on a certain turn. LOL. Good times, good times. I love to turn on the music and sing along to the radio and I love that Danica will now sing along too! I love having music in my life!
I am thankful for match box cars! These cars are the best thing to a mommy of 3 little boys. They aren't expensive and for some silly reason they LOVE them. The can make a crying little boy happy and quiet (at least at my house) and they are great bribes too!
I am thankful for my hubby job. OK, yeah I know not a silly thing but I don't have a lot to say on the matter. It has wonderful benefits and it pays. what more could a girl ask for? Except maybe a raise. HINT HINT, Uncle Sam!
There is so much more I am thankful for. But I went up and had a little pity party for myself when I was told we needed santa's sleigh to fit the gift into. ( I am thankful for a car that fit my whole family in it, even if thats ALL it will fit!) And the movie isn't keep the kids quiet and they think we should have dinner. (silly kids :)) ( I am thankful that I have food to make dinner!!!! :P) And daddy had to work from 4 pm till midnight tonight so I cant beg him to make dinner so I better get going. Schedule is a good thing ....I think!
Thanks for reading! Pics soon I promise! (thankful my camera works even after the kids did some ripping of the shutter even is it leave funny shadows in two of the corners, I still can take pics of my beautiful kids! and share them with our family and friends) Really must go now! Hugs and kisses to all! Hope you all are doing well! ~Care
Today we had Family Time.....
We spent the day just hanging out. 
We played a little catch. 
Spent a little time with our pets. 
Played a little hide and seek. And last but not least.....
Just enjoyed being together!
Yesterday Kaden turned 3. I can not believe how fast he is growing up. He is such a sweet little guy. My sister and his grandma and grandpa Hardin sent him a WONDERFUL gluten free cake. I totally spaced getting pictures of it but it was a very very yummy cake! I am slowly but surely coming around to the whole idea of a gluten free lifestyle. They say it helps with autism. And so if we are going to do it for one we are doing it for all. I am so not about to make millions of separate meals! OK, I know I already do because Kaden is so picky. But it will be healthier for all of us in the long run I think. Anyway we took him out to eat at KFC. Had his cake and opened a few presents...All of which I spaced using my camera, but here are a few pics from last couple days.
The kids are out of school today so I will write his birth story another day.We are off to the park
The appointment today was not at all what I was expecting or what they had said was going to happen, but that's ok....it just means more appointments, guess I should get used to it. Anyway, we met with a woman today and she is the intake coordinator. SO instead of filling out all of the paperwork and sending it back to her. I hand delivered it to her and we discussed any questions she had on it. SHe did give us a book on Autism and assured me that we seem to be on the right path. And she will put in all of the info she gathered today and put in a referral for their psycho analysis person I guess he is a very well known guy and deals specifically with autistic children and he will be the one to make the diagnosis, it should only take about 3 weeks to get him in. So i guess that is all for today. Off to fill out paperwork to have him seen at the childrens section of Stanford University Hospital.
On Sept 29th we celebrated our 8th anniversary...I saw this on a blog and decided it was the perfect time to use this even if it is a bit late! I love you hun!
1. Where did you meet your husband? wow complicated question most of our time was spent chatting online, there were several quick mettings. But when we finally got to know each other more he came to Utah. told you it was complicated
2. How long did you date before you were married? 11 months,
3. How long have you been married? 8 years :)
4. What does he do that surprises you? there are lots of little things.
5. What is his best feature? his eyes
6. What is his best quality? He loves me unconditionally
7. Does he have a nickname for you? Hun, or my personal fav (not!) yes dear
8. What is his favorite food? Corn beef, I think.
9. What is his favorite sport? College football (GO HUSKERS!)
10. When & where was your first kiss? Um, when he came to see me in Utah for the first time
11. What is your favorite thing to do as a couple? snuggle on the couch or play WOW together
12. Do you have any children? 4 wild and crazy kiddos
13. Does he have any hidden talents? he can almost out bake me
14. How old is he? 26
15. Who said I love you first? I honsetly am not sure
16. What is his favorite music? depends on his mood
17. What do you admire most about him? EVERYTHING, he is my rock, my best friend, and the father of our beautiful children
18. What is his favorite color? Green
19. Will he read this? doubt it he thinks my blogging is silly
20. Who do you tag? anyone who would like to steal it :)
Hey all just wanted to give a quick update on Kaden. Today we went back up to Fresno for his speech appointment. It went well, I left feeling like a horrible mom, because well I am sensitive. She said speech wise Kaden is very delayed, lol knew that too. But I didn't know it was as bad as she said it was. She said developmentally he is at under a 1 year old with his speech. She gave us some great ideas and things to try to see if we can get him to communicate with us and also gave us some papers with sign on if so we could learn a bit and try to help him that way. She also is giving us yet ANOTHER referral for occupational therapy because she noticed while we where there that he was trying to get his clothes off an awful lot and she thought that might be due to him not liking touch. She is also sending her recommendations to the school district and they should contact us and tell us if he needs to go to a special preschool or if he will have someone come in a few times a week to our home to work with. I should get a copy of her report in a few weeks and will post anything I may have forgotten. Anyway I will post again tomorrow after we meet with more doctors, not sure exactly what they will be doing tomorrow, but I will keep you posted as much as possible.
On Thursday, Vernon, Kaden, and I traveled to Fresno. We got there early and had about a good hour wait for his appointment, not wanting to risk getting lost or be late for the appointment we were early for we decided to go in and wait. I was so nervous, How are they gonna test my babies hearing when he cant tell you, yes I hear that beep or even raise his hand for the side that the beep is going off on??? Well the answer is very simple, they put me and him in a sound proof room and had huge speakers they would do a sound in one side and when he looked over then a teddy bear hitting a drum and flashing lights would go off as positive reinforcement. He was so ready to be gone by the time we finally got seen that he would smile at the bears as they were doing their thing, and go back to fighting me, (not wanting to be held on my lap). So there is a lot of good news and a little not so good news. So good news HE CAN HEAR!!!!! The slightly not so good news is he has fluid in his left ear and that could be causing him not to hear the lower tones. SO they will file their report and send it to our doc, who will probably refer us to an ENT specialist. YAY another doctor appointment for the poor little guy. And we have to go back in 3 months to see if there is an improvement. If not then we will go from there. BUT HE CAN HEAR! SO that is the latest and greatest on Kader. His next appointment is on the 30th and that is with the speech specialist. On the first we will be seeing some behavior specialist. I will keep everyone as updated as possible. TTYL!
So once again it has been a while since I last posted. I thought things would get easier with the older two back in school, but it hasn't. So anyway here is the latest and greatest with us. 
JD (7) is Loving second grade. He is doing so great and is not having break downs and not wanting to go to school or saying his sick, like he has done in the past.
Danica (6) is also doing great in first grade she loves to get her work done and has even started signing my name on her homework papers if I dont get to it quick enough. LOL!
My sweet 2 (almost 3 year old) Kaden is in the process of being tested for Autism. On Thursday we go to Fresno to the childrens hospital to have his hearing tested. Then the 30th we go back for a speech evaluation. On the first we go to a place called the regional center and meet with developmental specialist there. I have done a phone interview with the children side of Stanford University Hospital. They will also evaluate him but it takes 6-9 mos to get an appointment. But because he is so young they are going to try to get him in with in 3 months.
When he is diagnosed we have to fill out paper work with the military, they have a program called Exceptional Family Member. And what it will mean is there is a special need with him so when they move us they have to make sure his needs can be met at the hospital that is for that base. Right now we are having to travel for his care. So when we get a diagnosis we will most likely have to move AGAIN, unless we want to stay and continue to travel for his care. We are taking it one step at a time right now.
Dalton(7mos)is growing up WAY to fast for me. He is now crawling and pulling himself up he loves to eat. He knows just where to sit and to crawl over to anyone's unwatched plate and help himself. Vernon and I are both doing good and really have nothing new going on. I guess that is it for now.
Since I last posted Vernons parents have come and gone. I so wish we were closer to them no one can light a fire under Vernons bum like his mother and i LOVED every minute of her telling him what to do and him actually doing it LOL. We had a blast with them too the took us to the Adventure Park (kids Favorite thing) and up to the Sequoia National Park. IT was BEAUTIFUL!!!!!! We plan on taking LOTS of trips up there to go camping and fishing, but most of all just getting away and relaxing as a family. we took a family picture while up there..... 
My kids are growing up too fast! Next Monday the kids will be starting school and they are so excited. Danica is glad to be going all day again(when we were in hawaii K was all day, but only half day here) now that they will be back in school I am sure the blogging will pick back up. They sure have kept me busy this summer. Kaden will be going in to meet with his ped doc on the 21st, where we will be finding out if like the doctors in Hawaii that they think he has some form of autism. I know that will make ya'll jump for joy that I am back on the ball with that. I have been a slacker on it since we got here and I wasnt able to take him to his appointment in hawaii due to just having dalt and still having stitches that got infected and Vernon being in school across the island. Anyway I think that is all for now. If anyone knows someone in Hawaii who want to buy my car let me know :)
Hmm...June is going to be an exciting month for us. To start it off, Danica graduated from Kindergarten. I turned 27, wow I am getting old!!!! Then my mom and step dad Jerry came to visit. They brought a Uhaul full of both mine and Vernon's old junk from high school. Very cool! What a trip down memory lane it has been for us. I am so glad to be living within drive distance to them. I have missed family so much. They spoiled us rotten while here. 
I can not even begin to tell you how grateful I am for all that they do for us. The kids "official" last day of school was the 5th. But because the Hawaii schools are so far behind the kids are in summer school. I think they are trying to kill me starting summer school at 7:30 am. But I totally understand why is gets HOT here and it is SO DRY. The kids like the summer school program so far except like me the early start time is killing my night owls. JD told me today "mom I would really like summer school but I am so tired instead" LoL too cute! Danica is so stubborn (wonder where she gets that from) she wont get dressed in the morning I have to do it. Even the little boys are bothered by the earlier wake up call. I am sure in a few days we will have a routine down until then we are all zombies. Vernon is in a new shop at work and is the LPO (leading petty officer) and seems to really like it. It deals with the stuff he did in Hawaii so he is not really out of his comfort zone. :) JD is loving the warm weather and loves playing outside in the pool. Kade is really starting to be more social and is even starting to make what I am going to say is words!!! I am so happy. We will still take him in to see the specialist we will probably make an appointment to have him seen by a regular doc next week. This week when bot of us could be there, there is a "mando fun day" and Vernon has duty so he cant leave early. Dalton is such a cutie, I love him so much. He is so demanding, its funny. he will be sitting their happy playing until I turn away then he will scream his little heart out and when I turn around he looks at me like what!?! I am still nursing and I am so proud of myself, I don't normally get this far with the nursing. But with him it has come very easy. He does get a bottle every once in a while which he is learning to hold on his own and is getting to be pretty good about rolling over. My baby is growing up so fast and I can't have another. IT sucks, but I know its for the best. Grandma Sharon and Grandpa Jerry will be coming to visit us next and we cant wait! Umm think thats all for now!
I, Carolyn am not a happy creature by nature. I used to be! Don't get me wrong, I TRY to be happy, but its not always easy. So I have decided every few days or so I am going to blog about what makes me happy and/or things I am grateful for. Who ever decides to read this dang thing will just have to deal with the fact, that I havent made many friends here and this is my outlet for a while cuz I have no one to talk to, whine to, vent to, or whatever. LOL JUST DEAL or don't read!
1. I am grateful for tiny baby smiles. I love this age when I can look at my tiny baby and he smiles like he knows a special secret about me. Like i am not the world most horrible mommy because i said no.
2. I am grateful for a toddler full of energy, how else would i find timed to exercise.
3. I am grateful for technology, how else would I be able to keep in contact with my old friends, family I haven't seen in AGES and my hubby while he is at work.
4. I am grateful for my kids school, what a wonderful break it gives me. Not just that but it teaches me that the songs I have known since kindergarten, I have been singing them wrong all along...hehehe who knew!
5. I am grateful for all the crazy questions my kids come up with, the best so far today.."mommy do you love money?"
6. I am grateful for my crazy chaotic life my kids prove me with. How bored I would be with out them. Thank heavens for nap time though!
7. I am grateful for my husband, his support, his love, all his flaws. I love it all and have no idea what my life would be without him in it.
8. I am grateful for my mom, my dad, my in-laws. They are all so good to use and help us the best they can. Even if it is to say I am sorry you are grown ups figure it out on your own.
9. I am grateful for Navy moves. I know you military people will think I am crazy. But where else do you get everything packed up, shipped and unpacked without you having to much. Or where else can you start your life all over and become a different person each time if you choose. And while it is hard to see friends come and go. You can make some of the BEST friends ever.
10. I am grateful for homework. While I don't like having to fight with my kids over it. I love seeing what they are learning and watching how smart they have become.
I have decided that I am going to blog about the kids over the next few days! Today is Danica's Day. For a project at school Danica needed a baby picture and me to tell her about how she was as a baby. After 3 moves and the kids endlessly getting into the pictures and coloring on them or tearing them and MULTIPLE computer crashes. I came to realize I had no baby pictures of her. OUCH! But what was worse is that time in my life was so hectic I couldn't remember much of her being little. Bigger OUCH! Since we have had Dalton the kids are full of questions about what they were like. I really should learn to like scrap booking. So until then this will have to do. I would like to thank grandma Sharon for saving my behind with the pictures. She sent me a HUGE file and I could not be more grateful.
So here we go. Dear Danica, the day you were born was one of the most exciting days of my life. I was so tired, the night before we drove to Maryland to pick up your grandma Amy and your Uncle Clay, and when we got home your big brother JD knew something was up and refused to go to sleep. I remember sitting in the waiting room and there were 3 other c-sections before us. (they told me to come early and it was who ever got their first would go first, We got there first but they changed their minds) The C-section itself went good, and once they took you out your daddy was right there at your side. You were screaming your head off! You quieted down when they gave you to daddy. and I kept telling him to bring you to me. I knew I wasn't going to be able to hold you but I needed you near me. When daddy brought you over to me, he kind of laid you on my chest so I could kiss you and as soon as you touched me you quit crying. I knew you were mine and I was yours. I also knew how hard it was going to be once we got home. You and JD were 16 months apart....Not as close as you could have been but still close enough to make for a lot of sleepless nights. When we brought you home your brother love you immediately. My friend Brandy came over to give you a cute cute cute new outfit and see you and you were screaming your head off. Big Brother JD came running over and kissed you on the head and kept telling you shh dana, shhh. It was right then and there that I knew you and your brother would be the best of friends and he would always stick up for you. You were our "odd" child. You got on a schedule right away and there was no changing it. You wanted to go to bed at 8 pm and wake up at 8 am. Which would have been nice for most people. But your daddy worked nights and wouldn't get home till 2 am and that was when we were used to going to bed and not get up till noon or later. I think you knew that if you were going to get any alone time with me you had to get up early and get it while everyone was still asleep. I loved that time with you, it didn't matter how tired I was, I loved to hold you and play with you. I remember the first time i put your hair up in a ponytail. it was so cute1 you had barely enough hair for the rubber band but you sat there and giggled. I remember the first time you sat on your own you were so proud of yourself and thought it was SO funny that mommy and daddy were sitting next to you clapping and smiling. I remember the first time you ate "real food" We were having dinner at a friends house and they made mashed potatoes. They kept teasing me because I refused to let you try them. I eventually gave in and gave you some and you gagged! It scared the life right out of me. But what scared me worse was when you reached on my plate to "help yourself" to more. You loved it! It wasn't long till you were a pro with eating and would sit on my lap and help yourself to what ever I was eating. The only catch was you had to be on my lap otherwise you would not eat. When you were a baby we lived in Virginia and we would go to my dads house, it was about a 2 and a half to 3 hour drive and you would scream the whole way unless daddy would hold you foot while he drove. Before I knew it and all too soon you were a walker. Soon you were joining your big brother and getting into EVERYTHING. He was your best friend and you wanted to do everything with him. You two have always tag teamed me. You get into stuff and one would run one way and the other would go the opposite way. Then your daddy got transfered to Hawaii, but first he had to go to school in Washington. While he was there we lived with Grandma Amy and Grandpa Jerry. You loved it, grandma had kitties and puppies and horsies. You loved to go out and help feed the horses and peek in at the chickens on the farm. You were always our social child. Where JD didn't like to go anywhere unless mommy went with him. You loved to go with grandpa places. Soon we were off to Hawaii. You were so good on the plane. we got to Hawaii and had to live in the Lodge. While we were living in the lodge Daddy got deployed. Your mommy was a mess, she didn't have any friends, a car, and was a million miles from all her security. We waited till we had a house and all of our house stuff and then mommy packed you back up and we flew back to Utah and we lived with grandma Amy and Grandpa Jerry. Mommy bought you and JD a trampoline. You guys love to go out and bounce. You also loved to go and pick all grandmas flowers. The day before Daddy got home from deployment we flew back to Hawaii to see him come home. Mommy bought you these very cute shirts that said I love my daddy. And boy did you ever! You were such a daddy's girl. And you had him wrapped around your little finger. We made friends with the people across the street and you loved to go over and play with Landon and Matthew. We used to go to the park and play you loved going down the slide. I remember one day you and JD escaped out the back gate and ran over to the mini mart in your diapers because you wanted a candy. I was so mad, but all I could do was laugh at the two of you running down the street in your diapers. Next came potty training. I wasn't trying to potty train you, I was working with JD and you just kinda picked it up. In fact you did better then JD and caught on a lot quicker then him. Things like that seem to come easier for you then him. After a while the Dummars moved and Mommy had your baby brother Kaden. 
You were NOT happy about him. Daddy told you mommy was having a puppy and you wanted a puppy not a brother. As a matter of fact you walked in looked at him and said "ok I saw him, can we go home now" You eventually gave in and decided he was pretty cool. 6 weeks after mommy had Kaden, daddy had to deploy again. Mommy did much better this time. We stayed in Hawaii the whole time. We went to church and play group and dinner with our friends who's daddies were also deployed. We did everything we could to keep busy and take tons of pictures of things we were doing for daddy. After Daddy got home from deployment it was the summer. We had lots of fun going to the beach and playing with our friends. You loved to play with Julio and Maddi and of course JD. You guys love to ride your bikes on the sidewalk in front of the houses. Then it was a new school year and JD had to start kindergarten. You were mad! Not because you would miss JD, but because you wanted to go and it was fair. JD hated school, he used to cry all the way to school and you would look at me and say "mommy why is JD crying if I could go to school I would be so happy I would be running away from you to get to class." I kept telling you that next year you would be going. But it wasn't good enough, you would spend the whole day home "playing school" with mommy or your dolls if mommy was busy. You loved to help mommy make cookies and anything that involved a spray bottle and a rag. At Christmas time we found out we were having to move to a new house because they were tearing down our house and building new ones. You were so excited we loved the new house, but we were moved away from Nicci, Joey, Maddi, and Nick. That was really hard for us, they had become our best friends, we used to spend all of our time playing outside with them. But we would still go to their new house and play and have bbqs. In March grandpa ED and Grandma Melanie came to visit, it was their yearly thing. You always love that time. You loved having a Grandma and Grandpa to spoil you! Plus it meant we would go to the Hale Koa and spend all day at the pool and beach and go to fancy dinners. Before too long it was summer and you and JD would spend most of your time running around the neighborhood with Tahani,Jayden, Kayla, Kolby, and Koen. We also found out mommy was having another baby and this time you were so excited. You hoped it was a little sister because you already had a little brother. Way too soon the summer ended and it was time for you to start school. You had the BEST teachers anyone could ask for! You LOVED school!!!! I knew that it would be hard on you when we had to move to California later in the year. You made lots of friends and everyday would come home with a huge smile. We made friends with the crossing guard, Shantel and her girls Cai and Col. You loved to stay after school and play with them for the hour while Shantel did her job. Over Christmas grandpa Ed and grandma Melanie came to visit. boy oh boy did you get spoiled. They stayed at the Hilton and they would come pick you up in the morning and take you to the pool and mommy and daddy and Kaden would come later in the day. You had so much fun hanging out at the pool. In January mommy had your baby brother Dalton, you were so sad you didn't get a sister. But you loved him anyway and made me promise you could hold him everyday. Bet you regret that one now huh? You were so proud of him you made mommy take him to school when he was 2 weeks for you valentines day show and tell about something you love. You said "this is my new brother Dalton, and he like to cry a lot" it made the whole class laugh. At the end of March we started another adventure in our lives we were moving to California. You were so scared to get on the plane. But you were very brave and did very good. We have finally gotten you back in school, its only half day and you don't seem to enjoy school as much as you did in Hawaii, but I know soon you will be all caught up with the rest of the class (Hawaii schools are SOOOOO behind) and you will be in first grade and going all day again and you will love school again. I love you Danica and I am so proud to be your mommy. I will write about you again soon, but until then I hope you are glad to know mommy hasn't forgotten everything about you growing up.
All my love, mommy
